The Guardian has compiled 23 of Pamela Stephenson-Connolly’s Sexual Healing columns addressing readers’ sexual and relationship problems, covering issues such as requests for threesomes, very high-frequency sex, masturbation after intercourse, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, mismatched desire, fetishes, vaginismus and pain during penetration.
Across the letters, Stephenson-Connolly’s advice