Psychologist gives tips on how to talk to children about the loss of a pet. by josiaslaves65

Regardless of the type of pet, dealing with its death is not an easy task for anyone. Even more so when the pet is considered an integral part of the family. For children, this loss can be even more difficult and, in some cases, quite traumatic. But how can you help your child cope with the loss? Psychologists say that "you have to talk to the little ones about everything. Of course, in a softer way and answering any questions they may have. Often, the death of a pet is the first big loss and needs to be taken with attention and lots of affection." It doesn't do any good to say that the pet will never come back or to use any kind of comparison with children. They will only become more nervous and confused. "Saying he's gone or escaped is not the best way. Always tell the truth, no matter what it is. The child needs to know that he was too old or died of some illness or accident," says the psychologist. To do this, speak softly and give the child the necessary support: "Speak calmly and explain that he was suffering. Show him that if he stayed with you, he would be in more pain and that where he is, he will be happy. You have to let the little one cry as much as necessary. Trying to console him will only make the situation worse. Cry with him and explain that these things are natural and that you did everything you could to help the little animal. Show that you are sad too and that you will overcome this loss together. "Give your child lots of affection and make it clear that you are upset, too. Let him know that you are there for him whenever he needs you and tell him to think about the good times they had when he misses his pet a lot," says the psychologist. Let the child say goodbye to the pet. "Ask her to draw a picture and if she wants, let her say goodbye to the pet. This attitude will comfort your child," says the psychologist. Avoid adopting or buying another animal afterwards. "The child has to understand that no animal can be replaced and that when the time is right, it will have another pet. But when is the ideal moment for her to have another pet? "After about 6 months of death, ask her if she would like to have another friend. After a while, the child will understand that each pet is a pet and all will be part of the good memories and moments spent together.