Couple say threesomes with third man transformed their relationship

Bea and Eric, both 48, say bringing a third man, Drake, into their sex life after meeting prospects on the dating app Feeld has transformed their relationship; they arranged their first threesome last summer. Bea says her libido, which had been low since her first pregnancy, surged again during perimenopause and sparked conversations about fantasies.

The couple first visited an “adult social club” but left nervous; later they used Feeld, met several prospects and, after a meet-up in a bar where Bea kissed Drake in front of Eric, progressed to an arranged threesome. Bea describes the experience as empowering and says it made her feel more confident both in and out of bed.

She and Eric were euphoric afterwards, though Eric struggled with jealousy at times and felt moments when he’d been sidelined; the three have seen each other about a dozen more times and Bea has started seeing Drake alone while relaying details to Eric. Eric says the renewed sexual openness followed years of mismatched libidos and a period when communication about sex was weak.

The couple researched ethical non-monogamy and consulted a couples therapist who specialises in open relationships before proceeding. Eric says he never becomes physically involved with Drake and that participating in giving Bea pleasure is intensely rewarding.

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