LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP

Having a long-lasting and happy relationship is the dream of many couples. However, to achieve this, it is important for us to know each other well. When we understand our partner well, the relationship will be stronger and better able to overcome any challenges that may arise. According to research by Dr. John Gottman, it takes about 3 years to really get to know a partner or other person and build a strong foundation for a long-lasting relationship. a. During the first two years, couples often engage in a romantic and exploratory phase. They are still in the stage of exploring each other and discovering each other's uniqueness. At this stage, couples usually show the best side of themselves. b. After two years have passed, this is the stage where couples start to see other sides of each other that they may not have known before. They face differences of opinion, conflict, and challenges in their relationships. c. After passing this second stage, couples can enter the third stage of their relationship. This is the stage where they have experienced many things together, both ups and downs. They understand each other's strengths and weaknesses. Here are some ways we can get to know each other better and maintain long-lasting relationships: 1. Open and Honest Communication 2. Appreciate differences 3. Doing Activities Together 4. Prioritize Quality Time Together 5. Appreciate your partner's uniqueness “Being a good person is difficult, especially since we are always in contact with other people. Be a unique and impressive person so that the relationship lasts.” (AsKus) #relationship#gettingtoknoweachother#qualitytime#appreciateyourpartner#kusnandar